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Minimalism Documentary: May 25th @ Gallery Place

If you haven’t seen the new Minimalism Documentary (Minimalism: A Documentary About the Important Things) from The Minimalists, there’s still a chance to see it in our area. It shows this Wednesday, May 25th @ 7:30pm @ Gallery Place Stadium 14. Book your tickets here! I’ll be hosting a Q&A session on minimalism after the show.

Are you on the fence? Check out the movie trailer below. If you live outside of DC, find a showing near you here.

Hope to see you there!

Great Minimalist Blogs (Plus Three Books & A Group)

Over the past year, as I’m researching topics or getting advice from friends, I’ve found a few good minimalist blogs that I thought I’d pass along.

Becoming Minimalist

If you need a dose of inspiration to pursue a life with less stuff, try Joshua Becker’s blog, Becoming Minimalist. He’s been living a life of rational minimalism for years in Arizona with his family. His posts are usually not very tactical, but are always motivational. Start with this blog if you need to be convinced of the merits of minimalism or if you need an infusion of inspiration to move forward on your own journey. Becker has also written the best book I’ve found yet on embracing minimalism with kids, Clutterfree with Kids and his book Simplify, which I’ve never read is constantly hitting the non-fiction best-sellers list on Amazon.

Zen Habits

This is not strictly a blog about minimalism; it’s a blog about changing your everyday habits for the better. In his blog, Zen Habits, Leo Babauta writes about topics ranging from how to get out of a funk to how to lose weight and keep it off. He’s developed a menagerie of habits that make life sweeter, and he discusses in detail how to make good habits and how to break bad ones. This is currently one of my favorite blogs because Babauta outlines concrete steps to help readers form better habits. I’m currently using his advice on leveling up to gain healthier eating habits and lose weight.

Minimalist Mom

I subscribed to The Minimalist Mom last year when Rachel Jonat was not writing much due to the birth of her third child. Then she moved from the Isle of Man to Vancouver and suddenly her posts have become regular and fairly relevant. She usually writes about something specific, like getting a smaller fridge or a new second-hand clothing website that she’s found. If you’re a parent, this is a great place to get ongoing ideas for life with your kids.

Marie Kondo

I haven’t been following any ongoing dialogue from Kondo, but her book, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up is by far the best way to reduce stuff and get organized. I love, love, love her book and the KonMari Method. The book is a somewhat quirky and indispensible must-read for anyone trying to create a life with less.

Find Other Minimalists in DC or Your City

I also follow The Minimalists and, while I don’t usually find their blog entries useful (they focus more on their tours, books, and upcoming documentary), one thing they’ve done well is to establish minimalist groups in major cities across the country. There’s one in DC. To join, like the Minimalist.org: Washington, DC facebook page and you’ll be invited to meet-ups about once a month. You’re also treated to random articles found by the club members. I’ve enjoyed lurking on the site for a while and someday hope to join a group meeting.

Which blogs inspire you?

How to Be a Zero TV Family

We don’t have a TV in our house.

That admission is less shocking than it once was. The number of people who have dropped their cable subscription or never had one currently stands at around 10% and that number is growing. According to new research from Forrester as reported by NPR this week, that number will climb to 50% for adults under 32 by 2025. For us, that doesn’t mean that we never watch shows or movies online. It means that we don’t spend time with the TV on in the background, we don’t watch commercials, and we don’t watch anything we don’t really want to see.

We discovered the Zero TV lifestyle by accident many years ago. Nathan got a seasonal winter job working in Medora, ND, requiring us to pay for a house and an apartment for the winter. We didn’t want two cable bills too, so we bought a much cheaper Netflix subscription and spent a cozy winter watching Arrested Development online. In a small town in the middle of the prairie, you’d think TV would be an essential escape, but we quickly realized that we were wasting $50 a month paying for 140 channels we didn’t need to watch. It was an awesome and eye-opening winter. The next time we moved, we simply didn’t hook up cable TV and we got rid of our TV too.

What I Love About Being a Zero TV Household

  1. No cable bill: At $50 a month, we’re saving $600 a year by not paying for cable.
  2. No commercials: OK, there’s the occasional commercial online, but I don’t have to sit through 8 of them to watch a 22-minute show. Not watching commercials probably saves me money too. My kids aren’t bothering me about the latest toy craze and I don’t waste my time learning about something I don’t need. Granted, many people now have TiVO, but that’s an extra expense I don’t have to worry about.
  3. No politics: During the elongated political campaign season in the United States, the attack ads and constant news updates come fast and furious and they make me furious too. Imagine a world where you can simply turn them off. We did. Now, when I happen to catch political updates on CNN while waiting for a flight, they seem odd and petty. That alone reinforces my decision to go TV-free.
  4. More productivity: It’s easy to turn the TV on in the background, but that can be distracting. After a hard day’s work, I don’t immediately turn on the TV. Now, I do something else like read to my kids, finish a project, or grocery shop online. TV makes it too easy to lounge around. Not having a TV opens up a lot of time to do something better.
  5. Raising readers: There’s a big difference between kids that are constantly watching TV and those that are playing outside and reading. Pay attention and you’ll see it too. Too much TV has been proven to reduce vocabulary and math skills and decreases attention span, according to Professor Linda Pagani of the University of Montreal.  It’s easier to get kids to read when there isn’t a TV in the room.

 What Do We Miss About TV?

Sports events. In particular, we miss watching Badgers Football and the Superbowl at home. My husband wishes he could watch Nascar races. My kids aren’t up-to-date on their pop-culture because they haven’t seen the latest shows. Of course, they are only 5 and 2.

We get around these problems by socializing more. We can go to the DC Badgers game watch events or over to a friend’s house for the Superbowl. ESPN3 will sometimes stream the Badgers games online.

How to Be a Zero TV Family

So, how do we do it? Here are some specific steps you can take to become a Zero TV family.

Stop your cable subscription and get rid of the TV.

Not having a physical box at the center of your living room does wonders for encouraging you to spend your evenings doing something else you enjoy. The cash saved is nice too.

Figure out which of your favorite shows are offered online for free via the network website.

This may soon be a thing of the past, but I watch Downton Abbey on PBS.org and used to catch every episode of The Amazing Race on cbs.com. Most shows are posted within 24 hours of the original viewing date.

Subscribe to Netflix, Hulu+, HBO, Amazon Prime, or the particular sports package you miss.

You certainly don’t need all of these!! We only use Netflix and that works great for us, but some shows/movies aren’t streaming (like Game of Thrones) so we wait for the disks or subscribe to see them another way. For sports, you can subscribe to MLB, NFL GamePass, and ESPN online. If there’s a particular sport you’re after, Google it. I’m sure there’s a subscription for everything.

Download one or two news apps on your phone and read them daily.

If you like to watch the news, save yourself some time and read only the headlines you care about. Every paper and news station has an app today. Download it and get your news whenever you want. Washington Post now has a subscription fee, but you can read stories from NBC 4 Washington for free.

Limit screen time for kids.

Just because the TV is gone doesn’t mean kids will stop surfing the internet or playing games. All screen time takes away valuable outdoor and reading time. So, set limits up-front and stick to them. If you start early enough kids won’t even miss the screen time.

Do you have additional tips for becoming a Zero TV family? Share them!

What I Learned From One Year of Minimalism

As I mentioned in last week’s post, I didn’t quite make my monetary goal for the year, but I learned an incredible amount that was far more valuable. Here, I’ll share a few things I’ve learned by trying to reduce “stuff” and obligations this year.

#1 – Marie Kondo can help you get organized

If you really want to reduce clutter and get your life organized, the KonMari method, which Marie Kondo outlines in her book, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing, is, by far, the best method to use.

Her method is simple.

  1. Discard “stuff” by considering things by category (clothing, books, papers, etc), NOT by room. Ask yourself if each item sparks joy. If it doesn’t, get rid of it. You’re left with a household of things you truly love. I was surprised by how many things I used to have that I rather disliked.
  2. Organize completely. Don’t buy anything fancy, just organize using the storage room you have and maybe a couple of shoeboxes.

I have yet to make it to the “organize completely” phase, but I have been floored by how well the “discard” phase works. Of all of the methods I tried this year, I found Marie Kondo’s to be the most useful. Her book is a quick read and I highly recommend it.

#2 – Clean 10 minutes a day

Set a timer and see how much you can clean in just 10 minutes. Do it every day. This is the only way I can keep my house reasonably clean and it’s really painless. I can get a lot done in 10 minutes and when that timer goes off, I’m done. No guilt for anything left out, I can get that tomorrow because I know I’ll have another 10-minute opportunity then. Some days I get so much done that I’m motivated to continue – not because I have to – but because I want to. This habit gives me a fresh start to every day and it’s really easy.

#3 – Wait 30 days before you buy something

I’m not talking about cereal or deodorant. Go ahead and buy those when you need them. However, for items that you’ll use over and over again (that will persist long after you purchase them) give yourself a chance to think twice about them. The 30-day rule lets you consider other options or do some research. It also shows you how much you want an item. If you can’t stop thinking about it for 30 days, then it’ll probably be something you enjoy for a long time, so buy it.

#4 – Increase automatic savings when you get a promotion

If you get a 3% raise and you’re already sending 8% of your paycheck to your 401(k), increase the amount you save to 9-11% right away when you get a raise. You’ll still feel like you got a raise (unless you’re very disciplined and save the entire thing – kudos to you), but you’ll also painlessly increase your savings, which could mean an extra six figures or more when you retire.

#5 – Experience gifts are awesome

It turns out that wine, chocolate, trips, and my personal favorite, massages, have become my favorite things to give and receive. Experience gifts are consumable; things that people use up, so they don’t stay around the house. They make the best presents because they build memories instead of a stockpile of “stuff”. The Minimalist Mom has a great list of 90 clutter-free gifts for any occasion.

#6 – Don’t throw away anything that doesn’t belong to you

Even kids notice when something is missing. If anyone catches you in the act of discarding something that’s not yours, the hit to his or her trust is massive. It’s not worth it and eventually #7 happens.

#7 – Your family will start de-owning stuff on their own

I think my husband jumped on board shortly after I’d cleared off my side of the dresser for the first time since we bought it. It looked like the border between Haiti & the Dominican Republic.

Haiti & The Dominican Republic

Our dresser looked like this…only in our case the bare side was the best. Photo Credit: National Geographic

Our closet also became easier to use. Eventually I noticed that he’d gone through his massive T-shirt collection and had thrown a bunch away. He didn’t tell me he did it, but he did. Finally, we sat down and considered the family DVD collection together.

When you first start to de-own, it can be really hard to do it alone, knowing that the dent you’re making is only a fraction of the total family “stuff”. We’ve still got a ways to go, but I’ve noticed my family jumping on board, slowly but surely. Nathan has even mentioned (with a hint of gratitude that he may never admit to) how much cleaner certain rooms are now.

#8 – Time is your most precious resource

Seriously. Assuming you have basic necessities covered, nothing else matters (well, except your health). My new goal is focused on carving out more time for the things that matter (including health) because time debt is no longer something I’m willing to live with.

#9 – Shopping for groceries online is the best lifehack ever

I save 1-1.5 hours each week by shopping for groceries online and then picking them up at the store. I also save loads of money because I can easily see my total and kick things out of my cart. There are just so many very cool ways that shopping for groceries online makes my life easier. The link above to my online grocery-shopping manifesto is worth checking out if you’d like to try it. I lay out all the pros and cons.

#10 – Minimalism ruins the fun of shopping

I can’t just make an impulse purchase anymore. For example, if I’m shopping for clothes, I can’t just buy the first shirt I like. No, now there’s a little voice inside my head asking annoying questions like, “Is this well-made?” “Is this versatile?” “Does it look amazing on me?” It’s a great voice, but sometimes I wish I hadn’t swallowed the red pill and changed my life forever.

#11 – It is impossible to get kids to get rid of stuff

Many will tell you they’ve succeeded in getting their kids to give away their toys. I’ll believe it when I figure out a way that works with my kids.

#12 – One extracurricular activity per week per family member is more than enough

This rule helps us all minimize the craziness that comes with too many obligations. It keeps us (the parents) from turning into a shuttle service and it helps us all prioritize what activities we really want to be involved in. I’ve also found that constricting activities to weekdays is helpful. That leaves our weekends freed up to explore and go on Family Adventure Days. Alison has soccer, Maddie is in gymnastics, and I stay late at work one night a week for yoga. Perhaps this only works because our kids are so young, but the rule works for us right now.

#13 – Minimalism is a journey

At first, I naively thought I could organize my entire life and then sit back and reap the rewards. Then the junk mail showed up and our kids had birthdays and received a bunch of presents. Freeing yourself from your stuff only works as well as your system for ensuring new stuff doesn’t catch you offhand. Figure out how you’ll defend yourself before you get started and you’ll have an easier time sticking to your wonderful new excess-free world.

One Year of Minimalism

I find it funny that my list naturally came out to an “unlucky” 13 items because I feel so lucky to have stumbled upon this project for the last year. It’s changed how I think about the world and how I make decisions daily. I am, without a doubt, living a life closer to my dream life. I am excited to continue it with a new goal and I’m glad that you’ve been reading.

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My Minimalist Birthday

minimalist birthdayI didn’t have to remind people about my minimalism project. I didn’t even notice that something had changed until several days after my birthday.

When I first started this project, holidays would roll around and people would joke about getting me extravagant or highly unnecessary gifts (like a second pitchfork) and probably spent more time than they should have wondering what to get me that would be minimalistic enough. Some friends and family bought normal, material presents anyway, but some found creative ways to get me experience gifts (there are some great minimalist birthday gift ideas here and here). The idea that I didn’t want a real present bothered some people.

Now, eight months later, with all the fanfare of a slug falling asleep under a leaf, my birthday rolled around and everyone automatically went minimalist. That’s right! I got amazing gifts from my family and friends (thank you!), but absolutely nothing material. What’s even better, no one even mentioned my minimalism project. No one, except my good friend, Maureen, who brightened my day with an offer to get me Marie Kondo’s new book, The Life-changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing, and made sure she got it in the best, most minimalist format (kindle). (So thoughtful!)

I also removed my birthday from Linked In and should have done the same for Facebook. While the onslaught of wishes seems nice at first, it’s nothing compared to hearing a sincere ‘Happy Birthday’ from someone who cares enough to remember it without a Facebook prompt.

So, while I may not be changing the entire world with this project, it seems I am changing my little piece of the world, which is enough for now.

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